Discovery

When was the last time you really played? My puppy, Ginny, insists on playing. All young animals play. It's how they learn, develop their brains, exercise their creativity.

There's a part of you that is forever young, forever in discovery. As a child, you followed your natural curiosity to explore your world, discovering what you were good at, what you loved to do. Beneath all the layers of adult responsibility, all the shoulds and obligations, there's still that young child within you, your source of energy, joy, and creativity.

In chapter 1 of Your Personal Renaissance, I ask readers to reflect on their childhood, to remember what they loved to do. You can do this by visualizing your child self, asking what you loved to do, and making a few notes to yourself.

Did you feel energized when you recalled what brought you joy in childhood? What gifts or talents did your young self demonstrate: a love of nature, courage, kindness, resourcefulness, interpersonal skills, a sense of adventure, teamwork, leadership, artistic talent, or something else?

Now choose one of your favorite gifts and find a way to use it in your life today. If you loved nature as a child, take a walk in a garden or park. If you loved playing team sports, begin an exercise practice or find a way to develop a sense of teamwork in your life. Studies have shown that when we use our gifts--our inner resources--we are happier, healthier, and more successful. Discovering your gifts is the first step on your journey to find your true calling.

You can find more ways to discover your gifts in Your Personal Renaissance, pages 20-37.